For example, I prayed and God healed me, or by faith our home was saved when the neighborhood burned down.
Are those who are sick not praying hard enough? If their home burned, did God not hear them? Do they not have faith?
Is my sister dead because the morning Sarah called me and said, Andreana is unconscious, please pray, EMS is on the way, I or my family, didn't pray hard enough?
No. No none of that is true. Bad things happen because they do. Good things happen because they do. Sometimes you get the good, sometimes the bad, but never ever because of how much faith or effort you put into it. Literally never.